#30: Don't Justify Your Way Out of What is No Longer for You
This episode is all about learning how to not justify your way out of what is no longer for you but instead embrace what is for you.
Justifying your way out of things is how the average human being makes changes in their lives but it makes change unnecessarily difficult.
When something is no longer for you, justifying your way out just adds unnecessary hardship. Don’t justify your way out of something that’s no longer for you. Just move into what is for you.
Here is a preview of the episode:
[3:41] Justifying your way out of things is how the average human being makes changes in their lives but it makes change unnecessarily difficult.
[5:39] When something is no longer for you, justifying your way out just adds unnecessary hardship, instead why don't you just move into what's right for you.
[8:13] When you look at your life and there is a situation that is no longer serving you and you need to make a change, it's the same thing here, as long as you are pushing against what you don't want, you're only locking yourself into what you don't want.
[8:29] There's a night-and-day difference between justifying your way out of something unwanted VS embracing something that you do want
[9:39] Justification feels like the need to control, the need to be right, the defensiveness.
[12:49] Learn the feeling of leaning into what matters to you. It feels like interest, intrigue, and curiosity.
When you look at your life and there is a situation that is no longer serving you and you need to make a change. As long as you are pushing against what you don't want, you're only locking yourself into what you don't want.
Justifying is energetically pushing against something. Law of Attraction brings you more of what you don't want if you're pushing against it. There's a night-and-day difference between justifying your way out of something unwanted VS embracing something that you do want.
Justification feels like...
- Control (being right)
- Dominion over others
- Dominion over situations
- Resistance (frustration, impatience, anger,
The goal here is to be able to make decisions about what's best for you without justifying it. simply because you can say yes to what you like and yes to what matters to you.
Learn the feeling of leaning into what matters to you. It feels like...
- Interest
- Intrigue
- Curiosity
- Relief
- Eager anticipation
- Happiness, etc.
As you go forward, be aware of the difference,
Anytime you catch yourself justifying your way out of something, pause step back, and from neutrality, where would you want to lean into? Let that be how you make choices to change your life for the better.
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